How To Exchange Funds in Private Car Transactions

When you’re buying or selling a car privately, traditional payment methods come up short. Most ways of moving money are inconvenient, risky, time-consuming, or expensive—sometimes all of the above.

We’ll help you separate the good from the bad, and show you a new better player in the private-party transaction game.

Before exploring individual payment methods, we’ll examine why large money transfers between strangers are challenging.

Catch-22: The Trust Problem

A catch-22 occurs during any high-dollar transaction between strangers. The buyer doesn’t want to pay without some assurance that they will get the item, and the seller wants the money before they hand over the goods. They both want to finish the deal, but neither party wants to become the victim of fraud or crime.

In low-dollar transactions, this issue is minor. But the higher the price tag, the more sharply both parties feel exposed to risk and want assurances that they’ll be protected.

Keep this issue top of mind as we explore the payment methods available for a vehicle transaction.

Physical Cash

Physical cash has one big advantage: you get paid on the spot. No bounced checks, no waiting for funds to clear. But for high-dollar car sales, cash is a bit risky and awkward. Here’s why:

  • Security risk: Carrying large sums of cash can make either party a target for theft.
  • Counterfeiting: Verifying the authenticity of a large number of bills takes time.
  • Counting errors: Miscounting can lead to disputes between buyer and seller or prolong the transaction.
  • Lack of paper trail: Physical cash transactions don’t leave an automatic record. Should the seller dispute the transaction, the buyer won’t have proof of payment.

Cash might work for lower-priced vehicles or when dealing with friends and family. For a high-value car transacted between strangers, a more robust, convenient, and secure solution is needed.

Personal Checks

Sellers don’t accept personal checks for good reason: there’s no way to verify whether the check will clear. A seller has zero visibility into the buyer’s bank account and doesn’t want to be left with a worthless piece of paper and no car.

Cashier's Checks

Cashier’s checks are a fairly secure payment method for two strangers to finish a high-value transaction. The bank verifies the buyer’s funds and issues them a check that can’t bounce.

They’re not foolproof—skilled forgers can create convincing fraudulent cashier’s checks. To securely transact with cashier’s checks, the buyer and seller should meet at the buyer’s bank so the seller can verify the check; the seller can also call the bank using a publicly available phone number from a trusted third party (Google, Yellow Pages).

Wire Transfers

Wire transfers are relatively fast and secure. When the originating bank confirms the wire, the seller has a high degree of confidence that they will receive the funds, even if it takes a few hours. But they do have some downsides.

  • Banking info exposure: The sender needs the recipient’s banking details to initiate the transfer.
  • Business hours limitations: Wire transfers are processed during banking hours, and some banks require multiple verifications before moving funds..

Credit Cards

Most private sellers lack the infrastructure to process credit card payments directly. And business owners with card readers won’t want to mix personal vehicle transactions with business revenue.

For those determined to use credit cards, third-party payment processors such as Stripe offer a solution—but at a cost. 

Here’s a breakdown for a $35,000 car:

  • Buyer pays: $35,000
  • Processor’s fee: $1,015.30 (typically 2.9% + $0.30)
  • Seller receives: $33,984.70

The seller isn’t going to take that thousand-dollar hit. They’ll push it back onto the buyer (who reaps the rewards in the form of cashback points) or insist on a different payment method. Sellers also dislike credit cards because the risk of chargeback leaves them exposed to ongoing hassle from a disgruntled buyer. 

Payment Apps

Peer-to-peer payment apps such as Venmo, Cash App, PayPal, and Zelle are great for  splitting dinner bills. For auto transactions, they fall short.

  • Transaction limits: Most apps have daily or weekly sending limits well below the price of most cars. For example, Venmo caps personal transactions at $4,999.99 weekly, while Zelle’s limits vary by bank but typically range from $2,000 to $5,000 daily.
  • Security reviews: High-dollar transactions may trigger security reviews, freezing funds for an extended period.
  • Limited protections: No legally binding documentation of the sale.
  • Fees: Some apps, such as PayPal, charge fees for goods and services (2.9% + $0.30), which can amount to hundreds or even thousands of dollars on a car purchase.
  • Chargebacks: Many apps allow payment disputes for extended periods. This leaves sellers vulnerable to chargebacks long after the sale.

Escrow Services

Escrow services solve the catch-22 of trust—for a price.

  • Fees: Most charge a percentage of the transaction value. For a car sale, this can amount to hundreds of dollars or more.
  • Delays: The escrow process takes time to complete. This rules out on-the-spot transactions.
  • Complexity: Bringing a third party into the transaction increases complexity and lengthens the time frame. Both buyer and seller must manage more details and coordinate among three parties instead of two.

A Bill of Sale Overcomes the Catch-22

A bill of sale is a legally binding document, signed and countersigned by both parties. Should either party have bad intentions, the counterparty has a document that would prevail in court. This gives the buyer some security that they are legally protected, and allows the deal to move forward.

A bill of sale records the terms of the transaction. Most states have official bills of sale with the following fields:

  • Sale price and date
  • Vehicle details (make, model, year, VIN)
  • Names and addresses of buyer and seller
  • Odometer reading (mileage)
  • Any warranties or “as-is” declarations

It’s simple to print two copies of the official bill of sale for whichever state the transaction occurs in. For states that don’t have an official bill of sale, a generic template is valid. Before money or car title exchange hands, the buyer and seller can fill out both copies, sign, and countersign. 

Printed bills of sale are still susceptible to two edge-case vulnerabilities:

  1. If your counterparty is using an alias, your legal protections turn to dust. Scammers often have convincing IDs for their aliases. 
  2. If your counterparty is a truly bad actor, they could forcibly take your copy of the bill of sale and disappear with the car and the money. 

The best solution is a digital bill of sale—stored in the cloud, signed and countersigned under both parties’ verified identities. That’s where DealNow comes in.

DealNow

DealNow makes high-dollar cash transactions simple. It combines the immediacy and convenience of physical cash with bank-like security. Forget about counting bills, trading sensitive information, or waiting for payment confirmation—just quick, secure transactions from your mobile device.

  • Digital bill of sale: Both parties sign a legally binding digital bill of sale stored in the cloud.
  • Instant transfers: Funds move immediately between parties, any time of day, any day of the year.
  • No transaction limits: DealNow can handle transactions of any size.
  • Flat fee: DealNow charges a nominal flat fee per deal, rather than a percentage.
  • Bank-level security: Funds are protected with advanced encryption and held in FDIC-insured accounts.
  • Identity verification: Both parties undergo identity checks, reducing the risk of fraud.
  • Title check: DealNow lets buyers order an optional title check, which reveals whether the car has a clean title. It also cross-references the seller against DMV records. 
  • Guided process: The app walks users through each step of the transaction.
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Here’s how easy it is to use DealNow:

  1. Both parties create and verify DealNow accounts.
  2. They connect in a DealNow dealroom.
  3. In-app messaging and scheduling simplify organizing a test drive.
  4. Both parties sign a digital bill of sale.
  5. The buyer sends funds through the app.
  6. The seller receives funds instantly.
  7. The buyer gets their car.

Instead of weighing the pros and cons of different payment methods, why not do your next transaction with a platform that’s got it all?

Payment FAQ

What is the best payment method when selling a car privately?

The safest payment method when selling a car is DealNow. Unlike checks and physical cash, DealNow facilitates instant, verified transfers of large amounts of money directly between buyer and seller.

DealNow secures transactions by:

  • Verifying both parties’ identities.
  • Confirming the buyer has sufficient funds before the transaction.
  • Providing a digital bill of sale.
  • Enabling instant transfers without transaction limits.


With DealNow, you get the immediacy of cash with bank-level security. Funds are held in FDIC-insured accounts with easy offboarding to your regular bank.

There is no standard maximum amount for cashier’s checks, but most banks have limits of $10,000 to $50,000.

Here are some common cashier’s check maximums at top U.S. banks:

  • US Bank: $50,000 per check.
  • Citi: $15,000 per check.
  • Bank of America: $10,000 per check.
  • Wells Fargo: $10,000 per day.
  • Chase: $10,000 per check.
  • TD Bank: $7,500 per check.

Unless you live in a tax-free state, you’ll need to pay sales tax on your car purchase. Other than that, there aren’t many tax implications when buying a car—whether you pay cash or get a car loan.

Most sellers want immediate, guaranteed payment when handing over their vehicle. They’re unlikely to accept the risks associated with personal checks for such a high-value transaction.

While it’s technically possible to use a debit card for a car purchase, it’s not commonly accepted in private sales. Most debit cards have daily spending limits that are lower than the typical cost of a car. And most private sellers lack the infrastructure to run a  debit card.

Transferring money between banks for a car purchase can be done through wire transfers or ACH transfers. These transfer methods can be slow and often involve additional transfer costs. 

A more efficient option is using DealNow, which allows for instant transfers between verified parties without exposing sensitive bank account details.

While popular money transfer apps such as Venmo or PayPal might work for small transactions, they’re pretty bad for car purchases due to transfer limits, high fees, and security concerns. DealNow is specifically designed for high-value transactions such as car sales, offering instant transfers, no transfer limits, and built-in security features.

To avoid sending money to the wrong person, always verify the seller’s identity and use a secure payment method. 

DealNow helps prevent this issue by verifying both parties’ identities and facilitating the transaction within a secure environment, reducing the risk of sending funds to an unintended recipient.

Transfer limits vary depending on the payment method. Traditional money transfers and many digital wallets have daily or per-transaction limits that can be lower than the cost of a car. 

DealNow handles high-value transactions without transfer limits, making it a great choice for car purchases of any amount.

To protect your bank account details, avoid sharing them directly with the seller. Instead use DealNow to keep banking details private, allowing you to complete the transaction without exposing sensitive financial information to the other party.

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