How to Send a Large Amount of Money For a Car

When buying a car from a private seller, payment is often the trickiest part of the transaction. The higher the vehicle’s value, the higher the stakes and the more untenable some payment methods become. 

If you’re buying a 2003 Corolla for $4,500, just use Venmo. Or physical cash. For a $60k late-model Ford Raptor, Venmo is out. And 60k in bills starts to feel a bit sketchy.

Let’s look at your options for moving money. Then, we’ll introduce a new solution that might be your best friend going forward.

Before exploring individual payment methods, we need to examine why large fund transfers between strangers are so fraught.

Catch-22: The Problem of Trust

During any high-value transaction between strangers, a catch-22 occurs. The buyer wants the item before they pay, and the seller wants the money before they hand over the goods. They both want to finish the deal, but neither party wants to fall victim to fraud or crime.

When the stakes are low, this issue is minor. But the higher the price tag, the more acutely both parties feel their risk exposure and want assurances that they’ll be protected.

Keep this issue in mind as we explore the payment methods available for a vehicle transaction.

Physical Cash

A transfer of bills and a handshake. It’s old school and the process is fairly straightforward.

  1. Visit your bank and request a large cash withdrawal.
  2. Wait for the bank to process your request (this may take days for large sums).
  3. Transport the cash to the meeting.
  4. Watch in uncomfortable silence while the seller counts the bills and inspects each for counterfeiting (if they’re smart, they may insist on going with you to a bank and having a banker count and verify the money).
  5. Hope the seller isn’t a criminal aiming to mug you and take your cash, along with the car.

Physical cash is fine for small purchases but gets too risky and inconvenient for large transactions. It’s time-consuming to withdraw a lot of cash from your bank, and it’s time-consuming for the seller to count and verify it. And of course, having a large amount of physical cash on your person makes you a target for robbery. 

Cashier's Checks

For large transactions, people choose cashier’s checks because they’re more convenient—and safer—than physical cash. 

A cashier’s check is issued by your bank, which guarantees the funds. Sellers trust cashier’s checks because they can’t bounce. But they can be forged, which is why a smart seller will insist on meeting at your bank so that a banker can verify the check is good.

Compared to cash, a cashier’s check is a relatively secure way to pay for a car. But it’s still inconvenient to meet your seller at your bank. It also limits you to doing the deal during banker’s hours. 

A bank draft operates similarly to a cashier’s check and has the same advantages and disadvantages.

Wire Transfers

A wire transfer involves your bank sending funds directly to the seller’s bank. It’s secure, fairly fast, and not as inconvenient as some of the other payment methods. Here’s the process to initiate a wire transfer:

  1. Gather the seller’s bank details (account number, routing number).
  2. Visit your bank or log into online banking.
  3. Initiate the wire transfer with the seller’s information.
  4. Wait for the transfer to process.

Wire transfers would be even more convenient if you didn’t have to coordinate with your bank to initiate them. Or be beholden to banker’s hours. 

And they’d be even safer for you and the seller if you didn’t need to exchange banking info with each other. 

Payment Apps

Peer-to-peer payment apps aren’t viable for large car transactions. They cap out at lower limits ($2–8k for Venmo, Zelle, and Cash App; $60k for PayPal, which has hefty fees attached). Don’t bother. 

Credit Cards

Credit cards are a terrible way to pay for a car. If you’re hoping to get cashback rewards, you won’t. Most sellers will balk at incurring Stripe’s fees and will pass them on to you if you insist on paying with a credit card. Processing fees will eat up your rewards, and then some, leaving you in the negative.

And don’t even think of financing a car purchase by taking on credit card debt; the interest rates are horrendous. Get an auto loan—even a subprime one if necessary—before taking on credit card debt.

Cryptocurrency

Cryptocurrency is limitless, uncensored, and fairly low-cost to use. It’s also really hard if you’re not a blockchain pro. If you and the vehicle seller agree to use crypto, here’s the process:

  1. Decide which cryptocurrency you’ll use (e.g., Bitcoin, Ethereum). Confirm the seller accepts it.
  2. Create a digital wallet to store and send your cryptocurrency. This could be a software wallet on your computer or phone, or a hardware wallet for added security.
  3. Meet the seller: Arrange an in-person meeting to inspect the car and complete the paperwork.
  4. Have the seller provide their wallet address. Double-check it’s correct—crypto transactions are irreversible.
  5. Initiate the transfer: Open your wallet app and enter the seller’s wallet address and the exact amount agreed upon. Double-check all details before confirming the transaction.
  6. Wait for confirmation: Depending on the cryptocurrency and network congestion, this could take minutes or hours.
  7. Verify the transaction: Both you and the seller should confirm that the funds have been received in the seller’s wallet.
  8. Complete the sale: Once the funds are confirmed, finalize the paperwork and take possession of the vehicle.

Here are the reasons you may want to steer clear of crypto:

  • Volatility: Crypto values can fluctuate wildly, even within hours.
  • Lack of confirmability: If the seller were to lie and say they have not received the crypto, you’d have no way to prove them wrong. 
  • Complexity: Both you and the seller need to understand how to use crypto wallets and exchanges.
  • Margin of error: Once you send crypto out of your wallet, you can’t get it back if you’ve entered the wrong digit in a wallet address.
  • Tax implications: The IRS views crypto as property, potentially triggering capital gains taxes.
  • Limited acceptance: Many sellers aren’t equipped to accept cryptocurrency payments.

Escrow Services

Escrow services solve the catch-22 of trust we explored at the beginning of this article. They act as a neutral third party, holding funds until both the buyer and the seller fulfill their obligations. If you and the seller agree to use an escrow service, here is how it will go: 

  1. Agree on terms and select an escrow provider. Beware of fake escrow services, which are used in scams.
  2. You pay for the car—to the escrow company. They’ll likely want you to pay with a wire transfer, but they may also accept other payment methods.
  3. The escrow company notifies the seller that you’ve paid.
  4. The seller gives you the car.
  5. You confirm to the escrow company that you have the car.
  6. The escrow service releases your money to the seller.

Though they help buyers and sellers overcome risk exposure, escrow companies are cumbersome because they layer more coordination, time, and expense onto a deal.

We reimagined how to overcome the catch-22 and give you and the seller similar assurances, without the added headache and cost.

The Importance of the Bill of Sale

A bill of sale is a legal document that memorializes the terms of a transaction and is signed and countersigned by both parties to the transaction. It surmounts the trust problem by assuring the buyer that they would prevail in a court of law if their counterparty absconded with their money without delivering the vehicle. 

You can use a paper bill of sale—two copies, one for you and one for the seller—but there are two edge-case vulnerabilities with it:

  1. If your counterparty is using an alias, your legal protections turn to dust. Scammers often have convincing IDs for their aliases. 
  2. If your counterparty is a truly bad actor, they could forcibly confiscate your copy of the bill of sale and disappear with the car and the money. 

A digital bill of sale—stored in the cloud, signed and countersigned under both parties’ verified identities—overcomes these vulnerabilities.

A Better Way to Pay for a Car

DealNow gives you an instant, verified transfer of funds, wrapped in a workflow that overcomes the catch-22 of trust. You and the seller go step by step through an engineered dealflow that is fast, secure, and intuitive. The entire process occurs via the DealNow mobile app and takes moments. 

  1. Seller verification: You know you’re dealing with the seller’s legal identity, not an alias.
  2. Title check: An optional title check—ordered with one click in your DealNow dashboard—verifies that the title is clean. The listed seller is cross-referenced with DMV records (scammers love to list cars that are owned by someone else). 
  3. Electronic signing and countersigning of the bill of sale: You and the seller are each notified to sign in the DealNow mobile app. Each of you receives verification that your counterparty has signed. The signed document is stored in the cloud and retrievable by either of you at any time from your DealNow account.
  4. Instant payment: DealNow prompts you that you’re safe to send the money to the seller. When you approve payment, the seller instantly receives a notification of funds received in their DealNow account and is prompted to sign over the title and give you the keys. 

Delays exacerbate the trust issue, which is why we’ve engineered them out of the process. Because the seller receives payment instantly—and because they’ve signed a bill of sale under their actual identity—the deal can conclude on the spot. 

DealNow handles any size transaction, with no limits on the amount that can be instantly transferred. It works any time of day, every day of the year. It’s so easy, so smooth, and so safe that you’ll never want to buy a car without it.

Payments FAQ

What is the best way to pay for a used car from a private seller?

The best way to pay for a used car from a private seller is DealNow. Unlike physical cash (which can be counterfeit or stolen) or checks, DealNow facilitates instant, verified transfers of any amount directly between buyer and seller.

Private car sales can be risky. Here’s how to protect yourself:

  • Take your time: Don’t rush into the purchase. Take your time inspecting the car and take it for a test drive.
  • Verify details: Check the vehicle identification number against the title and vehicle history report.
  • Use secure payments: Avoid easily faked forms of payment.
  • Beware of pressure: Walk away from sellers using high-pressure tactics. 
  • Trust your gut: If something feels off, it probably is. There are plenty of honest sellers out there.
  • Use a bill of sale and make sure you verify the seller’s identity.
  • Perform a title check on the car.
  • Use DealNow to close the deal. Invite the seller to your private dealroom and enjoy identity verification, a digital bill of sale, a title check, and secure instant payments.

PayPal caps out at $60,000 per transaction. If you’re asking less than $60K for your car, you’re golden—if you don’t mind the fees.

PayPal charges a 2.9% + $0.30 fee for goods and services. For a $60,000 vehicle, that’s almost $1,800. That’s coming out of someone’s pocket, and most sellers won’t want to take the entire hit. Be prepared to split the cost of funds transfer with them.

Use DealNow to verify the seller’s identity, check the vehicle’s title, complete a digital bill of sale, and transfer funds securely. These features protect you throughout the online buying process.

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